Coastal Point • R. Chris Clark : Tori Lynn Jenkins is still dealing with her injury, but largely back to acting like herself.As she wears her pretty pink dress with flowers and a sparkly headband and smiles from ear to ear, it’s hard to know by looking at her that 2-year-old Tori Lynn Jenkins just lived through a life-changing ordeal.
Around 1 a.m. on Sunday, Aug. 30, emergency services were dispatched to a home located on Muddy Neck Road near Ocean View, following a 911 call that stated a child had been shot.
That child was Tori Lynn.
According to the Delaware State Police, a burglary report had been taken around 9 p.m. that Saturday evening from Heather and Joseph Jenkins, Tori Lynn’s parents, in which Joseph Jenkins had reported that his shotgun and some cash had been stolen from their house.
“We were both out during the day,” recalled Heather Jenkins. “I was down in Ocean City with the children, and he was out crabbing with a friend. I didn’t even realize anything was missing until later in the evening. But when I came home, the door was opened. I didn’t really think anything of it at the time, because sometimes the kids will run out and forget to shut the door.
“We had all the cash that I had saved up over the summer, doing photography, taken. Stuff was pulled out of the closet. I had a 20-gauge shotgun that he had given me several years ago as an anniversary present that was taken. It had only been fired once; it was more for show than anything else. I didn’t even have any ammo for it, but that was taken.”
After the police report was filed, Joseph Jenkins reportedly left their home and went to a friend’s house, where he obtained a .40 caliber handgun, and then returned to his residence around 1 a.m.
According to police, the couple’s three children — the two girls, Tori Lynn, 2, and Emily, 6, and their 10-year-old son, Hayden — were all asleep on a sofa nearby when Joseph Jenkins sat on the floor next to his wife to show her the gun. As he pulled back on the slide of the gun and let it go, police said, a bullet fired and struck Tori Lynn in the leg.
“Our family suffered a terrible tragedy that no parent should ever have to witness,” wrote Heather Jenkins on the family’s GoFundMe website.
She immediately called 911, and emergency services soon arrived at their residence on Muddy Neck Road.
“She’s was rushed in for emergency surgery after she was airlifted to A.I. DuPont,” Heather Jenkins said of Tori Lynn. “They did X-rays, and I actually saw the X-ray of her bone, where in the middle it’s just splinters… [The bullet] just disintegrated it.
“The bullet went in through her calf, came out the other side and then went into her thigh, shattering her femur and lodging by her hip. When her surgeon came in, they told us she was extremely blessed, that it was a miracle that she made it, because the bullet came so very close to hitting her femoral artery. Not only did it miss that, but it missed every major nerve in her leg.”
During the emergency surgery, the bullet was extracted from Tori Lynn, and four metal pins were put in, holding her bone in place, along with an external compact fixator to keep the pins in place.
“She’s looking at at least two more surgeries to adjust the pins, and extensive physical therapy, where she will have to learn how to walk again. And then there would be a final surgery to remove the pins.”
Heather Jenkins was unable to fly to the hospital with her daughter at the time of the incident because she was detained by police due to the nature what had happened.
“I was detained because they had to question me. I wasn’t able to leave. I didn’t get up to A.I. DuPont until about 8:30 in the morning, when she was just getting ready to go back for surgery.
“I had called my sister, who lives in Denton, and she went down to A.I. DuPont and met her at the hospital as fast as she could and stayed with her until I got there. It was extremely hard not being able to be there with her through all this.”
Joseph Henkins was charged with Assault 1st, a Class B felony (punishable by two to 25 years in a Level V prison), Possession of a Firearm during the Commission of a Felony and three counts of Endangering the Welfare of a Child. He was committed to Sussex Correctional Institution for lack of $41,500 secured bond.
“Right now, with my husband incarcerated. We have no income,” said Heather Jenkins. “At this point, he’s had the preliminary hearing, and the State is moving forward with all of the charges. They didn’t drop any of them. I’m not sure when his court date is going to be yet. The bail is set at $41,000 secured, so…
“I’m taking it minute-by-minute, day-by-day. It’s pretty much the best I can do at this point. It’s shattered our family. I mean… The doctors say that I have to stay home with her because of the extent of her injuries and the care that she needs.”
Because of the family’s unimaginable situation, Jenkins created a GoFundMe fundraiser web page, asking for $5,000 of donations to help with the family’s daily living expenses. As of early this week, the family had received $275 worth of donations.
“Word is still getting out there,” she said. “We’ve had an outpouring of love and support from our church [The River]… Our church actually paid to have a cleaning crew come to our house and have it cleaned before we came home. It’s just been a blessing.”
Heather Jenkins said Tori Lynn is already a national titleholder for America’s Royal Classic Miss Pageants and has received an outpouring of support from her pageant family.
“Our pageant family — the director, Suzanne Farris, has stepped up and done everything from collect clothes for her siblings and school supplies... She actually came and picked up my other two children at one point while I was in the hospital with [Tori Lynn].”
Jenkins said the only family they have in the area is her father-in-law, with the rest of their family living in Baltimore and Pennsylvania.
“So, we don’t really have a lot of local family, but we have our church family and our pageant family.”
Jenkins described her youngest daughter as an active, happy and energetic little girl.
“She’s a character. That’s why she does well in pageants. She gets up on stage and just hams it up,” she said, noting that Tori Lynn started competing at 3 months old. “Her sister does pageants, my 6-year-old. She’s won several state and national titles. She saw her sister putting on princess dresses and decided she wanted to do it, too. She gets up there and dances across the stage. She’ll smile and wave.
“Her personality hasn’t changed. She’s still happy and smiling. It’s a relief to see she hasn’t changed. She’s still the same child,” she said, noting there’s now an exception when it comes to strangers. “She’s become very shy around new people, with the nurses at the hospital and everyone coming in. She’s always afraid someone is going to touch her leg.”
Along with the GoFundMe account, Tori Lynn also has a donation account at Well Fargo banks, for Victoria Lynn Jenkins.
“People can go into any branch and make a donation into her account,” said Heather Jenkins.
She said Tori Lynn will turn 3 on Saturday, Oct. 17, and she hopes to hold a fundraiser the same day.
“We’re in the process of setting up a quarter auction. We’re trying to secure a local location to hold it in our area, to raise money for daily living expenses and kind of have a birthday party for her at the same time. The whole community can come out for her,” she said.
Jenkins’ other two children recently started first and third grades at Lord Baltimore Elementary School.
“They were happy to go back to school,” she said. “Lord Baltimore reached out to us, too. While I was sitting in the hospital, the guidance counselor, she reached out and said, ‘If you guys still need school supplies, please let us know.’”
“They’re starting counseling, therapy,” she added of her elder two children. “They were both awake when it happened, and they saw it happen. We talked to the social worker and the psychologist at A.I. DuPont, and they recommended some great trauma therapists to get them in with, just to kind of help them deal.”
Even though they experienced a trauma, as well, Jenkins said her two eldest children have been a huge help to her.
“Her brother and her sister have just been amazing. They’ll sit down to play with her on the sofa — even my 9-year-old, which is kind of amazing,” she said with a laugh. “They’ll say, ‘I’ll help you, mommy. I’ll help you play with Tori.’ Her sister thinks she’s her mother, too.”
Jenkins said the incident has made her a caregiver to her daughter in ways she had never before never experienced.
“It’s very tough, emotionally and physically, because she’s kicking and screaming because she’s terrified,” she said. “I’m the kind of person, I couldn’t take a splinter out of my kids before, and I went from that to having to care for these open wounds… Just seeing the metal pins coming out of her legs, it’s just… it’s hard. But, as a mother, I know I have to do it. You have to do what you have to do for your kids.”
Tori Lynn, who loves all things “Frozen” and the color pink, can now only wear dresses, due to the condition of her leg and is now primarily transported on a bed of pillows in a children’s wagon, a gift from her nana.
“We had to redo her entire winter wardrobe. She can only wear dresses, because she can’t wear pants. So she gets to wear princess dresses all the time,” she said, adding of the wagon, “She can’t fit in the regular stroller anymore. The hospital actually had to lend us a special car-seat designed for children that have stuff like that on their legs.
“All the weight has to stay off her leg. They said not to let her try to put any weight down on it… We’re already having issues with that. She’s trying to push herself up and trying to stand, holding onto the back of the sofa.”
Of Tori Lynn’s awareness of the situation, Jenkins said she’s unsure how much her young daughter comprehends.
“She’s so young; I’m not sure how much she really understands. I tell her it’s exercise to help make the booboo go away.
“They think there’ll be hardly any nerve damage, and she probably won’t even walk with a limp. She had an angel watching out for her that night.”
Jenkins said Tori Lynn, who was admitted to the hospital on Aug. 30, was released on Sept. 3.
“They flew her up Sunday morning. She went into surgery about 8 o’clock Sunday morning, and they had us discharged Thursday. They did rounds of antibiotics, packed the wounds and everything. They had to teach me how to do pin care and all of that before she could be discharged.”
Following her discharge from the hospital, the family has had to return to A.I. DuPont twice, and Tori Lynn has been doing physical therapy exercises at home.
“Every day, twice a day, I’ll sit down with her and get her to wiggle her toes. ‘It just makes mommy so happy seeing you wiggle those little piggies,’” said Jenkins lovingly to Tori Lynn, who wiggled her toes as she independently removed her foot brace. “She just amazes me with what she can do already.
“She’s been absolutely amazing. Her physical therapists at the hospital — when they came in, she sat up by herself. They said most of the time they aren’t even able to sit up like that,” Jenkins said. “With her being so active anyway, she’s going to push herself through physical therapy. I can see it already — we’re going to have to hold her back.”
Since they returned home, Jenkins and Tori Lynn have visited Ocean View Police Department, whose officers were first on the scene the night of the incident.
“We actually got to go meet some of the officers from the Ocean View Police Department that responded that night. I took her up to meet them, and I got to shake their hands and thank them.
“We have a home nurse that our insurance is going to pay for, for two or three more visits. Several members of our church are nurses. Even some of the medics out of Millville have contacted me through Facebook and said, ‘If you need help, we’ll come help you.’”
Jenkins praised all the emergency services personnel she encountered on Aug. 30.
“By the time I called 911, the police and medics were there within three to five minutes. They responded so fast, it was absolutely incredible. They kept me informed the entire time — ‘She just landed.’ ‘They got her stable.’ ‘They’re prepping her for surgery,’” recalled Jenkins.
“I knew there were certain procedures that needed to be followed and everything. They were so incredible about keeping me updated. They’re amazing people. They kept me very much updated on everything until they could release me to get up there to be with her.”
As for the future, Jenkins said the family is taking everything one step at a time.
“Right now, they aren’t even giving us a timeframe. It just depends on how quickly the bone heals and how soon she’s able to start physical therapy. Right now, she’s not able to put any weight down on her leg. We have to continue to go up to A.I. DuPont Hospital.
“We’re in the process right now of trying to get her insurance switched, because A.I. DuPont doesn’t accept her insurance. We had to go up yesterday, because there was an infection setting in in the pins, and we have to go back Monday… but, past that, because they don’t accept our insurance, they either need to file an out-of-network claim or work with us to file out-of-pocket, or we could do to Children’s Hospital in Philly.”
Now home, Jenkins said life for her family has returned to normal, or at least a new normal.
“Since we came home from the hospital, we kind of picked up where we left off and moved forward. We’re still going to church on Sundays. I sing on the praise team, so we were at practice Wednesday night,” she said. “We go grocery shopping, and she gets to sit in the wagon and my son pushes the cart, which he thinks is awesome. It’s an adventure going out to stores now, but we manage.”
Jenkins said the community’s support of her family has been such a comfort during this tumultuous time.
“It’s amazing to see how the community’s just rallied around us,” she said. “I’m just overwhelmed by the support from the community, and everyone saying, ‘You’re in our thoughts and prayers.’”
To donate funds to Tori Lynn, visit www.gofundme.com/8h3h9vag or contact Jenkins via email at Heatherjenkins32@aol.com.